Only God can cause a man to feel the heart of a woman. Only God can cause a man to understand the depth of hurt the heart of a woman can bear at hands of a man. TJ was given such a cause. Chosen and instructed by God, TJ expresses an unusual understanding of a woman’s heart and hurt caused by man. In his writing, he conveys clearly and fully man’s need for self-accountability, and communicates it in the form of a well articulated apology.